Let it go...

You should give others free reign to live as they like. Learn how you tend to accept that the things go on sound lines without you.
You can’t protect anybody against his/her demons, it’s enough challenge to straighten out you roundabout ways.
If you think or act instead of somebody you do harm the person to whom you should help to develop, because you deprive him/her of his/her experiences.
Let the other being go to live his/her life freely, by easy stages.
Do you know how is remission called in other words?
Loving-kindness.